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Playing Catch-up

So…it’s been quite a long while since i’ve decided to update everyone on my oh so exciting life (insert extreme sarcasm here)

I had an amazing 4th of July weekend…I took off work early that Friday. Went home and basically just vegged out. Saturday i got up and went to Frederick and went tanning (bliss) then took Vernon lunch at his new job which is consequently right next to the tanning salon. After that i went home and took a nap and went to Jeremy’s. Saturday night we went to a party at my friend’s Steve & Cara’s house. it was ok. We hung out with Jamie for most of the night then went to the grocery store and then went home. Sunday we went to the outlets and made stops in ecko, jcrew and pacsun. i got the cutest bikini in jcrew for $14…it was originally $60 (you know i can’t resist a sale) i got a few other things in there then Jeremy got 4 nice shirts in ecko. we finished at pacsun where i bought a new pair of jeans (no holes) they are cute too. i love the color and they fit really well. ultra low rise teenage jeans in the dirty denim look with a lot of flare at the bottom. i also bought a new roxy hoody and a tee shirt and 2 new belly rings because they were $5 each. i got a necklace for free because the jewlery was actualy buy two get one free.

when we got back to frederick we went to the grocery store. Jeremy went to haircuttery which is right next store to get a haircut while i did the shopping. when i went to pick him up, i decided to stay and get some blond put in my hair.(did i forget to mention that on Friday night when i was vegging out i died my hair RED…really RED? i needed to tone it down a bit. when he picked me up from getting my hair done we went straight downtown to Brewer’s ally for drinks and dinner with some friends from work. we were there for like 5 hours before deciding that enough was enough;) we went by Lorence and Beth’s (the friends we were with) for alittle while and just hung out at the pool. i got eaten alive (well my feet did) they must be extra sweet.

On monday we spent the day with my parents. we made homemade jalepeno poppers, got a half bushel of crabs and had a bbq. it was fun. after we ate, we watched the Indian Runner. it was a great family movie. highly recommend it to everyone!

Tuesday we spent the day at Lawrence and Beth’s with some of their friends. we had a cook out lot’s to drink and just lounged in the pool all day. it was fun. So you can see i had a great 4th!

Wednesday was back to work and i won’t bore you with the details but let’s just say that for those 3 days i had a lot of overtime. TOO MUCH!

This Friday night i was going to just stay home and work on getting my clothes put away (which are all over the floor). Jeremy called me when he got home (I was on my way home) and told me he thought i should really just come over there. I went tanning, came home and took a nap then picked up chinese and went to his house. i took a shower when i got there to wash off the spray on tanning yuck. we had dinner and just hung out. Saturday we went up to hagerstown to go shopping. we went to the locked door (one of those bad stores) i got a really cute pair of shoes there. not hookerish or anything. then we went to frederick. i got a tatoo.(like how i just threw that in there) it’s really little on the back of my neck at my hairline. you can’t see it unless i have my hair up. it’s a cresent moon and a star…typical for me i think. it didn’t really hurt either. Jeremy bought me a new eyebrow ring because he said that he really liked it when i wore it. then he gave me his credit card and the victorias secret cataloge and said to order some things. i bought two bras and matching panties and a new bikini and the cover up skirt that goes with it. did i mention he paid for the tattoo? i wouldn’t ever spend money for myself like that. only when necesary. When we got home we made jalepeno poppers and patted hamburgers and went to our friend Toms house for a party. He just had a new deck built and a hot tub installed. it was kind of fun. i didn’t like most of the people there, but my friend Carrie and her sister Kris who i know pretty well were both there. it was nice catching up with them. Kris decided that her and i were getting in the hottub…i didn’t take my bathing suit so i went in in my bra and panties…it was more conservative than some bikini’s that i have so i wasn’t worried. Jeremy was sweet. he lit ciggarettes for me and refilled my drink a lot and massaged my head while i was in the tub. it was fun. we came home around 2 in the morning i think and just colapsed in bed. slept late this morning. we woke up around 9:30….he checked on movie times and we went to see Pirates at 10:00am. it was great. another movie i highly recommend especially if you saw the first one. when we got back i had a bad stomach ache though…like cramps i think i was ovulating. i was going to go to Stace’s tonight but i felt so icky. i came home and crashed. felt better when i woke up.

Greg and i had a talk about the rent. he said he doesn’t have $650 but if he did he would give it to me. he said he can give me $500 this month. he starts a new job tomorrow and if it goes well and he makes some money next month he’ll be able to give me more. he said he understands how broke i am and that he helped get me there but that he doesn’t want to live with anyone else. not because of the money thing but because he doesn’t like anyone else enough. he said he loved me and couldn’t imagine trying to get along with anyone else. he said it’s easy with you, we have fun together and don’t fight. which is all true. he’s said he’s going to sit down with me and go over all the bills and help me come up with a plan to put some money away. i think that’s good. We’ll have to wait and see, but i know he’s trying and he thought about what i said to him in the emails that i sent.

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Saturday night..For Real

Ok…now that i’ve re-read my Saturday Part 1 post, I know where I left off.

Greg and I were in the kitchen after I posted last and heard the girl say she didn’t like the music we were listening too. Jeff got up and turned if off…didn’t ask, just turned it off. How rude. especially since normally he loves hip hop.  so Strike 1, he can’t be himself around her…Greg went and turned it back on…something obnoxious and filled with perversion and curse words…we proceeded to stand in the kitchen and sing loudly the “best” lyrics.  We went outside to smoke and I said I can’t take this…he can’t even be himself. Greg said he knew it was rediculous and she was nasty! Shortly after that I said “Jeff…Guess what time it is…” he said, “Melisser…what time is it?” I naturally said “SHOT TIME” he wined back “I don’t want a shot” and I mean wined. like a little kid.  I looked at Greg and said, “Wow, that was winey.” Greg told him to “Stop Fuckin Wining”.

So then I went back to my room to start getting ready. I curled my hair. The original intention was to flip it up, but it’s aparently too long to flip at this point so it just ended up kind of curly at the bottom. Looked really good though. I came out when it was half way done and Jeff said “Wow, you are getting all dolled up to go to Frederick?” I said, “I always get dolled up to out, why not?” I’m guessing he was thinking about his trailer park girlfriend who was wearing dirty jeans with joint compound smeared all over them, a nasty t-shirt and bad tennis shoes…on top was a way to big hoody and a red jacket. she didn’t match at all and her hair looked like it hadn’t been brushed or washed for that matter in for ever! EWWW is all I can say.

So anyways…Greg’s sister Kim arrived and shortly after that I called Bryan to see where he was. He said he’d meet me at the liquor store. I needed to get out of the house and away from trailer so I said fine. Jumped in the car and met him and lil B at the store. We got a bottle of Patron Silver for shots, a bottle of wine, and some beer, then picked up a pizza and smokes.  When we got back I finished getting dressed with the help of the B’s.  I ended up wearing a pair of fitted flair jeans and a black cashmere turtleneck sweater with a super long shaggy sequened cream scarf tied around my wast. It was cute…oh and black socks with black shoes or course.

**Just a note…three things i forgot to say earlier…Greg’s sister asked Sam how her and Jeff met.  She said, oh he picked me up at firestones, we were both pretty drunk. Kim replied with, “I guess you looked pretty good to each other at that point in time.” I thought i was hilarious. I almost peed my pants. Lil B kept calling her “ManPrice” her last name is Price. He knows her from working at the hospital. He kept calling her that to her face and telling her that they might have to fight later. I thought it was so funny. Jeff made the comment that he stays at Sam’s house sometimes.  Greg and I looked at each and just rolled our eyes.  Jeff left shortly after that to go pick up Sam. We were talking about it later and Greg said he knew for a fact that Jeff had never stayed there before. I just found it interesting…I knew it wasn’t true, but why would he feel the need to make something up that everyone knew was bullshit?**

Then the drinking really began. A couple of shots of patron and two cape cods, semi strong and we were ready to leave the house. Greg was wasted already. I think we were all semi wasted.

Greg’s sister Kim drove him, I drove the two Bryans and Jeff drove his girl. Oh yeah and Kurt, Jeff’s roommate had also come up…he drove himself.  I had to go to get gas so we got to the bar (Firestones) after everyone but Kurt.  I paid cover for me and the bryans since they picked up the pizza. then bought a round of drinks for Greg, Kim and myself. I walked up and got service at the bar immediately.  Bryan couldn’t get any service, so i walked over, took his money and went back to the bar. As soon as the bartender saw me, he came back and took the order for the other drinks.  I was amused.  So Kurt joined us and i got his cover because he had no cash. he said he get me a drink or two later.  we made our way over to everyone else. Jeff was standing there with Trailer and neither of them had a drink. Apparently Jeff gave Greg some money to go get drinks but he didn’t do it…too drunk to remember probably.  So Jeff drank some of my drink which was super strong and made with rail vodka. EWWWWWWWWWW.  But it kicked in my drunkeness a little more. We finished that drink and decided to leave and go to Old Town Tavern.  It’s a place that i won’t normally go, but since it was Greg’s birthday i went. Me, Greg, Kim and the bryans…the rest of the gang didn’t realize that we were leaving. Greg went back in to tell them that we were going to old town so that they didn’t think we bailed on them.

At old town…we went straight to the back of the bar where a terrible cover band was playing and ordered drinks and shots. Kim wouldn’t take her shot so we got this guy Mathis that Bryan knew to take it for her. He didn’t leave…he kept coming back asking absurd questions like “Do you know any bisexual girls?” of course my comment was “Yes, but they are all stippers!” I guess that comment went over well. He told Bryan that he liked me. Anyways enough about him…he left eventually.  I continued to get more wasted. At some point in time i was dancing with Jeff, then with Kurt then I got pulled up in front of the band by some girl to dance.  I lasted a few minutes before going back for another drink…This guy comes over and buys Kim and I a shot. Actually several shots. He claimed he was german…he knew maybe three german words. then he was begging for our phone numbers…he said he just moved to the area and was lonely. Personally I thought he was gay…he had the look to him. Jeff and Trailer decided to leave. I guess he was staying with her.  He said buy to everyone then just stood there in front of me, she was standing right behind him. He stepped away and grabbed me in a “warm embrace” **LMAO** no, really he grabbed me for a hug and wouldn’t let go. i finally had to say, “Ok Jeff…good bye. have a good night and be careful.” he left…we closed the bar down and then we left. 

Bryan and Brian started argueing as soon as we got in the car.  They argued the whole way home. We stopped at sheetz then went home. When we got home, Kim was leaving. I gave her a hug and she said she’d come up again soon that she had a really great time.  She’s great, her personality matches ours perfectly…she’s great and sarcastic.  Anyways, we went downstairs and i went out to smoke a cigarette before going to bed. When i was out there i heard shouting and the next thing i knew, they were fighting…physically fighting. I could hear it and see that someone was getting slammed up against the back door.  I eventually went inside when the noise quieted down. Bryan was bleeding from the head and hand and lil B had left with Bryan’s truck. I cleaned up Bryan’s cuts and called lil B to try to get him to come back and wait until morning to leave because he was really, really wasted. He said no and Bryan yelled in the background that he hoped he hit a tree and died. I mean it was bad. I was so embarassed.

I went back to my room and posted the post from 3am sunday morning. It took forever because i was wasted as well.  I passed out. Woke up the next morning at like 7:30. I didn’t feel too bad while i was still laying in bed, but once i got up and started moving around, i realized that i was still semi drunk.  I got Bryan to go to Starbucks with me where i got a iced green tea classic as well as a triple M.  I wasn’t sure what i wanted but i was thirsty and needed caffeine.  I took Bryan home and went up to my mom’s house so that I could attend a baby shower at 3 that afternoon. I proceeded to sober up and started feeling like total ASS! The loud lady family members that showed up for the shower didn’t help matters. I left the party at 4 and went home to shower then went to Jeremy’s. He took me to best buy to get some new dvd’s then took me out to dinner at applebees. It was good. I think he apologized for the way he acted on Friday night 5 or 6 more times. We went home and watched Walk the Line. I fell asleep and he just held me. Let me sleep in some this morning. He got up early and made me lunch for the day.  He then turned the shower on so it would be hot and helped me out of bed. Asked if i slept ok and if i felt ok. I felt ok.  Went to work…worked 10 hours and now i’m here…i’m sure there are other things i could post about, and i’m sure i will eventually, but that’s it for now. my fingers are getting tired!